Guide: The Handy Interactive Sex Toy & VR Porn
Connecting your Handy to SLR is simple!
Handy Connectivity Update: 20 Feb, 2025
SLR now compatible with the Handy's latest firmware v4 (how to update). This means multiple improvements over the old API, plus more to come:
- Script loading times are gone
- Switching between manual mode & script is instant (previously required script re-upload)
- Changing playback speed is instant (previously required script re-upload)
Note: V4 is still in beta, so consider using V3 for now until we're certain it's stable.
How to connect The Handy via WiFi
- Launch the DeoVR App. Type www.sexlikereal.com into the DeoVR browser.
- Go to the Settings menu by clicking the gear icon on the taskbar
- Navigate to the Haptics tab
- Find the Handy icon and toggle it ON
- Enter your Handy Connection Key and press Connect
- Power on your Handy.
- Press the WiFi button on your Handy to connect
- That's it! Play any scripted video and enjoy!
How to connect The Handy via WiFi using web browser
Use a WebXR browser on your smartphone, tablet, laptop, PC or Mac:
- In your Profile page, Enter your Handy Connection Key -> Press the “Checkmark” button to save
- Click Play on any video in the Sex Toy Scripts Category
- Click Settings and Select the desired script available - the Handy will now connect automatically and prompt you when connected
Handy Tips
- If the handy is a little out-of-sync, fine-tune your synchronization by adjusting the Handy Script Delay setting.
- If you still run into trouble, you may find the answer in Handy's troubleshooting tips.
- The Handy only works with CMST VR cam girls via Bluetooth (WiFi not supported yet)
How to use The Handy and SLR on the Apple Vision Pro
Coming soon! Our devs are working on a dedicated AVP SLR app. Until then, you should get full functionality in the WebXR version of SLR via the Safari browser.
For other devices
We recommend checking our Complete Haptics Help Guide. Or go to our guide for Kiiroo, Vorze and Lovense toys; or our guide for OSR2/SR6 devices.
First-time user report:
We asked a first-time user to report back on how he found the setup process. Here is his feedback:
Handy with WebXR connectivity
Over Wifi
Firstly the user needs to set up a wi-fi connection to the users local network
- Via the handyverse app configure connection to the network
- Here is where you write down you device connection key as well
- New users might find all this setup annoying
- Non-technical users might get overwhelmed
- Once the setup is done it works like a charm
- Just start the video and select the script you want
- Works with PC ethernet and Handy Wi-fi connection
- Just needs to be connected to the same network
Notes:
- There is no stroke visualization on the desktop view for wifi connection (just the indicator that the handy is connected)
Conclusion:
- All in all the Handy setup and usage of it after a bit of a set up is really easy and seamless. There are minor some avenues to approve but the experience of it all was great.
- I loved the little visualization of the strokes on the bottom left of the video.
- Once it’s done and the connection key is entered, everything works seamlessly. You get a nice message and indicator that the handy is connected and ready for use.
- Enabling scripts while watching a video with scripts seamlessly connects to the handy and starts the stroker.
Still need help?
For more information, or to ask any questions related to haptic sex toy connection, visit our helpful forum thread on the topic.
